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[Dejaa @WayyBackIn96]

I’m really in grind mode 💰 I need all distractions to keep from round me 🙏🏾

[Raphouse TV (RHTV) @raphousetv7]

Young Woman From The Viral Meme “Bankrupt! No Money On My Card!” Is Going Viral Again After Showing How She Looks 10 Years Later😳

[Dejaa @WayyBackIn96]

@Raindropsmedia1 I know that ass stank 😷

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@obsrvate FALSE NARRATIVE 😂 Yall lie so bad

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[SAY CHEESE! 👄🧀 @SaycheeseDGTL]

Apple CEO Tim Cook is begging people to stop “doomscrolling”

“People need to spend more time in nature”

[Dejaa @WayyBackIn96]

@livingstackkz @SaycheeseDGTL How these rappers be fr 😭😭😭😭

[Dejaa @WayyBackIn96]

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it’s strict out here omg 😭😭😭😭😭

[Dejaa @WayyBackIn96]

@Bettynwabunikes Dear Lord God, May you place your hands on this baby and heal him Father God. Give him the strength to enjoy life to the fullest. I pray whatever he is going through is only temporary.

[Dejaa @WayyBackIn96]

🫦 FREE DURK

[RAZOR BLADE @razorblade300]

Painful🕊️😭💔💔💔

Lil Durk reveals that NONE of his friends has visited him in jail or even called to check up on him . He is shocked considering the fact that anything he had he shared with him .

They used to tell him to forget about his girlfriend but crazily the girl has been the only one attending his court sessions and looking after his business .

Some friends are terrible

Some times one loyal female is better than multiple friends .

[Listen Brother @Listen_Brothers]

I'm going to make it happen.

[Raphousetv (RHTV) @raphousetv2]

Lil Poppa’s Teacher from School Speaks Out “You’d Make Beats on your desk 24/7 and say “I’m going to be famous one day watch” 🕊️💔

[Lumen @LumenX_]

Soon....Very soon.

[Dejaa @WayyBackIn96]

@nobleisawinner What’s the song ???

[Dejaa @WayyBackIn96]

Amen

[Amelia @nobleisawinner]

If God woke you up this morning , PUT AMEN ?

[Dejaa @WayyBackIn96]

Bet money I whoop yall in 8 ball 🎱.. DM me !

[positivity moon @arrtnem]

a lot of the time it’s fear dressed up as desire.

Fear of being alone. Fear of being behind. Fear that if you don’t lock something down now, you’ll miss the window and end up as a cautionary tale in some group chat. Fear that life is unstable and a relationship is a safety raft. Fear that your value expires if you’re not chosen fast enough.

when you say “girl go study, get a better job, fix your skincare, tweak your resume, read a book,” part of what you’re really saying is: stop treating a man like a life plan.

Because it is wild how many women are out here acting like their relationship status is their main KPI.

They’ll spend three hours analyzing a text message from a guy who can’t even plan a date. They’ll research his attachment style like it’s a medical condition. They’ll accept crumbs and call it “communication.” They’ll pour money into cute outfits for dates with men who don’t even ask questions, but they won’t invest that same energy into building a life that doesn’t fall apart if a man ghosts.

And the thing is, it’s not their fault that this script feels normal.

Girls get trained early that love is the main storyline. The reward. The proof that you’re doing life right. Movies, songs, parents, aunties, even friends who pretend they’re chill but still ask “so are you seeing anyone” like it’s a vital sign.

a lot of women grow up with this quiet belief: if I’m not chosen, I’m failing.

And then they wonder why dating feels like emotional self harm.

Because you’re chasing security in the one place where security is never guaranteed.

man is not a foundation. Not because men are evil. Because humans are unstable. People change. People lie. People leave. People get sick. People lose jobs. People cheat. People get addicted. People are not a stable asset.

building your own life is.

That’s why your list hits. Not because skincare and resumes are deep. But because those things are yours. Those are parts of your life you can actually touch and improve without begging someone else to pick you.

Studying means you’re investing in your brain, not your appeal.
A better job means you’re paying your own bills, not auditioning for someone’s wallet.
A skincare routine is not about being prettier for men, it’s about you looking in the mirror and seeing someone you’re taking care of.
Tweaking your resume is you building options, which is the most underrated form of peace.
Reading a book is you returning to your own mind instead of spending your attention on a guy who replies “lol” and disappears for two days.

“keep your priorities straight” is the dagger.

real priorities are boring. They’re not glamorous. They don’t get you validation the way being desired does. They don’t give you that hit of “I’m wanted” the way male attention does.

they give you something better: stability.
this quiet truth: when your life is full, you date differently.

When you’re building your own foundation, you stop chasing. You stop doing mental gymnastics for a man who’s inconsistent. You stop calling anxiety “chemistry.” You stop mistaking crumbs for connection. You don’t need a guy to rescue you from boredom, because you’re not bored. You’re busy. You’re alive. You have momentum. So the men you choose are not the ones who fill a hole - they’re the ones who fit into a life that already holds you.

why the “obsessed with finding a man” era is so dangerous. It makes you treat men like medicine.

You start using dates to regulate your mood. You use flirting to soothe insecurity. You use attention to quiet loneliness. You use sex to feel chosen. You use relationships as a way to avoid building a real life, because building a real life takes time and patience and repetition and it doesn’t hand you compliments every five minutes.

It’s easier to chase a man than to face your own potential.

potential is scary. Potential asks you to show up for yourself with no guarantee anyone will clap.

A man feels like a shortcut to being seen.

[Dejaa @WayyBackIn96]

@WorldDarkWeb2 Get a BB gun 🎯

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Put $ on iMessage games ?

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@THEG0DMUTHA @ShaqFromTheSouf 🔥

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