@Stepharny1 When men come to the public to cry that their wives cheated, if you investigate the matter, you will find out that the man cheated first and has been cheating but when the woman cheats, that's where they draw the line
They can't accept what they dish out
As an actual private person, I can tell you for a fact that people act very odd when they cannot figure out who you are or what is really going on in your life beyond the surface.