Most couples have no idea how many issues sex could solve in their marriage.
Not every fight needs a meeting. Sometimes the house is tense because the bed has been cold for too long. You've not touched each other for too long and now you have completely lost that bonding thats brought by sex.
Then both of you start arguing about small things like money, and dishes not knowing its caused by the lack of sex.
Sex cannot fix a terrible character, but it can lower pride, restore warmth, and remind two people they are still lovers, not roommates.
Why does the human experience involve so much pain? Maybe because to love deeply is to risk loss, to care is to become vulnerable, and to grow often means leaving behind pieces of ourselves we once knew. Some days, life feels unbearably heavy, but perhaps the pain is also proof that we are capable of feeling deeply, changing, healing, and finding meaning in what once broke us.
I have realized that the marriages that have lasted long have the same things in common:
- The man is older than the woman
- The man earns more than the woman
- Most of them actually the woman doesn't work
- The man is physically stronger than the woman
- Most of them have put God at the center of the marriage
- They rarely post themselves on social media
- Most of them the wife is not higly learned
This is a recipe to a strong and lasting marriage.
No, I don’t hate you. I just lost all my respect for you, and honestly, that feels different. I don’t wish anything bad on you, and I don’t need revenge. I simply stopped seeing you the way I once did. Sometimes disappointment doesn’t turn into anger, it just quietly changes the way you see someone forever.
Before marriage, y’all should be able to discuss: ✍️
- If you struggle to have children naturally, how far are you both willing to go trying?
- Who steps back from work if the children need a full-time parent for a while?
- If one person becomes seriously sick or disabled, what does commitment look like then?
- If one person gets a life-changing job abroad, whose career takes priority?
- If your parents become old or sick, are they allowed to move into your home?
- If one of you loses a job for a year, how will the household adjust?
- Will you combine all your money, keep it separate, or do both?
- If one career requires constant travel, how much absence is too much?
- What happens if one of you changes your mind about having children?
Marriage is not only about choosing someone you love. You’re choosing who you’ll make some of life’s hardest decisions with.
We installed 7 CCTV cameras around the house just 3 years back.
Since then, every year I've faced some maintenance issues with regards to either camera clarity or some cameras completely blacking out.
18 months back, installed a brand new CP Plus power supply which has now gotten short circuited and burnt!
Plus half the cameras are not functioning for many months, and they're suggesting to do the entire wiring again.
Now the installation guy shared this quote for repair and another 15k for annual maintenance?
Apart from annual rain and thunderstorms which affects a small section of wiring, rest everything is inside a covered area.
Looking for some genuine advice around proper installation with low cost maintenance for the same?
What should be the annual maintenance cost for 7 cameras given 90% of cameras and wiring is secure at all times?
Neem Karoli Baba will make it happen. Not only in collections which is an unintended consequence. But in the way people watch quietly in an Indian cinema unusually. In the way the audience sit even after the title screen comes on. In the way everyone walks out touched by spirituality. In the way even an atheist's heart feels there's something higher that's guiding him. That is Maharaj ji's way. He's showing the way for a new India. For the new generation. The way back for the masses into spirituality, service, and saintliness of this great civilization. Just in time for the new India that will emerge out of the upcoming chaos and turmoil in the world.
Narcissists believe they can author your identity—who you are, what you feel, what you said, what your intentions are, what your worth is.
They don’t just want control over your emotions; they want control over your character and public image.
That’s why they:
-Tell you who you “really are”
-Rewrite your character
-Redefine your emotions for you
-Assign you roles (villain, burden, unstable, selfish, etc.)
-Act like their interpretation is more real than your lived experience
It’s psychological colonization. If they can define you, they own you.
And when you refuse that—when you think for yourself and ignore their twisted fantasy—it destabilizes them. That’s why they escalate, smear, gaslight, or rage. You’re removing their perceived authority over reality.
A woman will never remember how much you suffered to make her life easy.
But she will never forget one day you made her uncomfortable.
Stop suffering to impress women bro
It's worthless.
The downside of being highly intelligent is that it can either delay your materialistic success or quietly kill it. High intelligence usually by definition leaves behind a subtle ego: nothing can really hurt it, nothing can truly humble it, and nothing can trigger the urgency required to execute relentlessly. Because in the real world, speed and intensity often matter more than intelligence itself. The higher the intelligence, the lower the ego, and as an extension hardly any success without ego.
If someone drains you, leave. If you have to edit your thoughts. Filter your words. Hide your success. Swallow your anger. Avoid certain topics. Leave. If someone makes you feel smaller, confused, more careful about every little thing, it means you do not feel psychologically safe around them. They do not belong in your life. Leave.
Women will never understand the simple joy men get from just existing.
A man can arrive in a new city, walk around for hours, explore random streets, observe people, and be completely fucking content.
Then a woman joins.
Now there needs to be an agenda.
Cafe. Restaurant. Shopping. Tourist spot. Photos.
Next location.
Something always has to be happening.
Meanwhile, a man can grab a good drink, sit in the town square for three hours, watch the world move around him, and think:
"Yeah. This is f*cking nice."
No itinerary. No entertainment. No destination.
Just existing without needing existence to entertain you.
Being a man is peaceful.