It's interesting that any criticism of violent or degrading sexual norms immediately becomes "so you hate women having sex?". As if sex and degradation are so fused together in people's minds that they can't imagine separating the two.
My gma had a psychotic break after my gpa died when she was 82 and she kept yelling βI'm free I'm free thank you god I'm freeβ as EMS took her. my family doesn't like to talk about it