That you cannot make someone love you the way you deserve to be loved.
You can be the perfect partner. You can give your all. You can be patient, understanding, forgiving. You can communicate your needs clearly. You can show up every single time. And still, the other person may not meet you where you are. Not because you are not enough. But because they are not capable of giving what you need.
I learned this the hard way. I spent years trying to convince someone to see my worth. I thought if I just loved them harder, sacrificed more, shrank myself enough, they would finally realize what they had. I thought their inability to show up was a reflection of my inadequacy. I thought if I could just be better, they would finally choose me.
But that is not how love works. You cannot teach someone how to value you. You cannot force someone to be emotionally available. You cannot love someone into being who you need them to be. Love is not a transaction. It is not a reward for good behavior. It is not something you earn by being perfect. It is either given freely, or it is not given at all.
Train yourself not to become too emotionally attached to anyone because when they stop communicating or stop talking to you, you might not recover from it. Remember, every day people wake up with different feelings.
Remember to stay grounded, build your own happiness and protect your peace above everything else.
@ibomairlines I did booking this morning, I noticed the PNR as expired, but I was debited. What can I do. The flight is scheduled for Monday, and all your customer service lines are not reachable.
@OverlandAirways your services need alot of upgrade. My airtime has finished sha, i wonder how many callers you guys have this night that you will have to keep a customer call waiting forever. Craziest part is nobody is responding to the WhatsApp chat. #overlanddobetter
@ani_danielson What or who will attack us like this. The will just negotiate with leaders, pass through the door and do it face to face, no need for the stress.