Before worrying about women, a man should:
- Have a stable income
- Go to the gym 5x a week
- Have your own place/car
- Be comfortable being alone
- Be building an additional income
If you don’t have all 5, women are distractions.
The smooth operators always have the same tendencies.
The funny G's always carry themselves with a certain demeanour.
The wealthy are always wired in a specific way.
If you're switched on, the formula is staring directly at you.
Take notes on the patterns + intertwine them within who you are?
You play the GAME on easy mode.
IYKYK.
Vetting a woman 101:
A dime will never have you questioning if she's a jezebel.
A jezebel will constantly have you questioning if she's a dime.
Do you understand?
SEE THINGS FOR WHAT THEY ARE, NOT WHAT YOU WISH THEY WERE.
You really don't have unlimited time. There is basically 20 years from 20-40 where you want everything to happen: 1) social circle, 2) money and 3) international travel to see the world
At middle age no one respects the dude still trying to "figure it out". Everyone knows.
The desire to be perfect rawdogs your psyche.
You don't need to be a millionaire before swooping a dime.
You don't need to know all the steps figured out before taking a risk.
In this GAME, you only need:
1. God
2. Balls
With both?
The universe conspires for you to win.
there's this belief buried deep inside me that i can't date anyone until i've become the absolute best version of myself. first i need the career. then the body. then the confidence. then the life plan. and only after all that, i'm finally allowed to be loved.
Skill issue.
If being honest with a woman makes her leave = she never liked you to begin with.
The ONLY way to keep a woman is to be BRUTALLY honest.
To the point that she's shook you're keeping it 100 with her.
You can't look at yourself in the mirror & think you're *THAT* guy if you have to lie to a 120lbs woman.
It's literally just a girl.
The funny guys always carry themselves with a certain demeanour.
The wealthy are always wired in a specific way.
The smooth operators always have the same tendencies.
If you're switched on, the formula is staring directly at you.
Take notes on the patterns + intertwine them within who you are?
You play the GAME on easy mode.
If there’s something that you want, but you can’t get right now - don’t change the goal.
That’s ghey.
As a man, you’re supposed to be shameless with your desires.
Because what other choice is there?
To live a life you hate?
To be realistic?
F that.
Embrace the fact that you want to live life a certain way.
Whether it’s the quality of woman you want to attract, the amount you want to make, the quality of people you want to be around etc.
Set the standard so you know who you need to become in order to meet that standard.
This is how you run laps past everyone.
Most look at their dreams, decide it’s too big then play a small GAME.
When you play a GAME that forces you to become a version of yourself you’ve never been - you attract what you want to you.
Most men will never get "it" because they wait for green lights.
The money you want isn't going to magically enter your bank account.
The life you want to living can't become your reality by dreaming.
The woman you want won't shoot her shot for you.
You must be BALLS DEEP in the arena.
Because the arena is the training ground for becoming the man you want to be.
And when you're *THAT* guy, everything you want effortlessly flows to you.
If you're waiting, you're playing a losing GAME.
Resist the urge to be controlled by your past.
You are not the mistakes you made or the L's you took.
Bury it to the back of your mind so you can step into the role God ordained for your life.
The only purpose of the past is to be incinerated + transmuted so you can fuel the creation of your future.
Use it to your advantage.
Your ancestors didn't have dating apps.
They just spoke their mind.
That's the GAME in a nutshell.
You don't need to be a IG famous or a liquid millionaire.
When you see a woman you're interested in, say what's up.
Because even if you say the gheyest thing of all time, if you carry yourself with THAT energy - instantly, she envisions a future with you.
Who you are >>> what you say.
Avoid any woman who instantly submits to you.
These types view you as a safe option until they find their real option.
You'll know a woman wants to be yours when there's a lil bit of friction.
The friction becomes submission through adoration.
This will never happen instantly.
If she seems too good to be true, she is.
Run.
A man's self image is his perception of himself.
You have an overaching self-image.
But you also have a self-image for every aspect of your life & this is reflected back to you by the reality you live.
You have a self image for money.
You have a self image for women.
You have a self image for power.
You have a self image for success.
You have a self image for respect.
Etc.
A man could have his self image set in stone for money and that's why he prints 6 figures a month with ease.
But he hasn't worked on his self image with women and that's why he always gets played.
And vice versa.
A man could be the smoothest operator with a woman, attracting without ever having to try.
But he struggles to make money because he hasn't worked on his self image in that specific realm.
The whole GAME is to elevate yourself into the man who's self-image is aligned across all realms of life.
Mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually, financially etc.
Self mastery is the pinnacle.
You gotta be putting like 10x shots on net compared to what you’re currently doing. Most people take one shot every few years. To run up the score you should be putting up 2-3 shots a day minimum. At the end of each year you’ve shot thousands of shots while most people did nothing. It’s a numbers game. Your shooting percentage can be horrible and you’ll still lap everyone. Gotta score to win. Gotta shoot to score. Shoot more.
You will effortlessly attract (& retain) a dime once you stop treating her like she’s special & you start treating her like a woman.
She doesn't want to be told how beautiful she is 24/7 or to be showered with material gifts.
There's only 2 things she desires.
Can she respect you?
Can she turn her brain off & follow you?
That's the GAME in a nutshell.
Any man who struggles to attract a dime fails because subconsciously, she doesn't have 100% conviction in who he is or his ability to lead.
It shows up in how you carry yourself.
It shows up in how confident you are in your GAME.
It shows up in how fast (she knows) you could leave her.
The real test of if you are who you say you are is when you’re with a woman who ticks all the boxes.
Any man can play it cool with a 4.
Only a G maintains his composure/frame with a dime.
And that's why she obsesses over him.
I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS ME.
I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS ME.
I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS ME.
I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS ME.
I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS ME.
I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS ME.
I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS ME.
I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS ME.
I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS ME.
I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS ME.
I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS ME.
Philippians 4:13
What would your life look like if you believed and lived true to this?
Would you walk into everywhere like God sent you or would you dim your light?
Would you be scared to shoot your shot at that dime or would you shoot from the hip?
Would you play it safe or would you be the man in the arena?
PROPAGANDA I’M PUSHING:
- Christ is king
- the GAME is cold; a man must be colder
- You can become *THAT* guy by just being HIM
- Always keep it playa
- You attract what you are
- You reap what you sow
- Blindly trust God
- Constantly delude yourself
- Think 100x bigger
- Stop trying with women (if you’re trying, you’re doing something wrong)
- Shoot from the hip
- if in doubt? Charge it to the GAME
- just have fun & smile more
- be stupendously handsome
- if God is for you, who can be against you?
PROPAGANDA I’M PUSHING:
- go to the gym
- read as much as possible
- start your side biz asap (more income streams = better life)
- learn to communicate (it is the #1 skill)
- start waking up at 5am
- pocket notebook and a pen everywhere you go
- keep your childlike curiosity alive at all costs
- 10k steps a day minimum (your life gets better)
- stay hopelessly optimistic
- know a guy who knows a guy (opens all the doors)
- quality over quantity every single time
- learn to sell yourself and your story
- only buy items that have a high ROI on your quality of life
- notifications off at all times
- give without expecting anything in return
- invest all your extra $$$ into assets (boomermaxxing)
Every man must experience what life looks like when you let your nuts hang.
It's a lifestyle that sticks with you until you're 6ft under.
Because you realise that you never need the perfect plan or the stars to align.
Simply being man enough to be in the arena positions you to get whatever you want.
The saddest people i know are not the ones who took a risk and failed. they at least have something to tell you about on a thursday night. the saddest people i know are the ones who got the safe version of everything. and there is this specific thing they all do. they ask you about your life with too much interest. they ask too many questions. they lean in when you tell them about something stupid you did. and you can see it in their eyes, they wanted to be in that sentence, but they chose to watch