Last week friday was one of a kind.
I won the Vice-President Election for KolaDiasi University Law student Association. I won a Merit Award courtesy of KDU LAWSA. And I won the Award for the Most Influential Male in the Faculty.
All Thanks to God for the gift of men @veestix79
If I tried to give my fiancée (now wife) money when we were dating, she would ask me what it’s for & why you are giving her money. She would reject it
I could remember the one and only time she asked me for money, 11k to be precise, 3 years into our relationship. It was cos she was in a very tight corner — she was going for her clinicals driving her dad’s car when she had a minor accident and needed it fixed before she returns home.
If you see how excited I was when she asked me for the money ehn. 😂🤣
But now that we are married, if I give her money, she go just dey shine teeth 😂🤣
She believes that if you are neither an orphan nor crippled, then you shouldn’t be collecting money from a man who isn’t your husband. That’s how they were brought up & that’s how I’m bringing up my girls.
Now you see why I really get pissed on this app when I see how men are spending on women they aren’t married to and more disgusting is women feeling entitled to a man’s money.
Your parents simply failed in giving your proper training, that’s all.
My people from Faculty of Law, Koladaisi University, behold @Young_Prom the right for the position of Vice President.
I can attest to the fact that he is a leader per excellence whose main goal is to serve the populace who he seeks to serve.
He is a choice that you won't regret
You can disagree with government policies, that is perfectly fine, that is democracy. People are frustrated, things are hard, and no one should pretend otherwise. But we also need to be honest with ourselves. Nigeria did not get to this point overnight. Many of the problems we complain about today have been building up for years, poor decisions, delayed reforms, weak systems, overdependence on oil, and a habit of avoiding hard choices.
The truth is, there is never a “good time” to fix deep problems. Tough decisions will always come with discomfort. We can debate whether the approach is right or wrong, and government should absolutely be held accountable, but expecting decades of problems to disappear in a short time is not realistic. Nobody enjoys hardship, but sometimes the real question is whether the country is finally trying to deal with the root of the problem instead of just managing symptoms. Time will tell, but we owe ourselves honest conversations, not just anger.
One thing we must learn in this life is to appreciate every single favour done for us, no matter how small.
When someone goes out of their way to help you, don’t turn around and make them regret it with ingratitude, silence, or entitlement. That nonsense kills goodwill faster than anything.
A simple “thank you” costs nothing, but it preserves relationships and opens more doors. Stop behaving like the world owes you favours.
If you can’t show basic appreciation, just carry your cross alone next time. No be by force.
Pattern Recognition is also the form of intelligence that causes the most stress.
You will see things that others do not.
You'll feel crazy.
Things will be *so obvious* to you, and others will just deny it.
- Tolu stole N5,000 from her parents but she couldn’t just start spending it freely in school without teachers or classmates asking where she got the money from.
- So, on her way to school she bought pens and started selling them to her classmates.
- Now, the money appears legitimate because everyone believes Tolu is making money from selling pens. She can now buy food and snacks without suspicion.
This is for every Man & Woman below 50 years.
Do these tests before 2027.
Save this for when you're ready.
5 months gone already.
- Blood pressure check..for all.
- Blood sugar/HBA1C- Checks level & control of sugar in your blood
- Liver Function test- (especially if you take Alcohol)
- ECG- ( If you're a gym bro / gym sis or thinking of checking into a gym)
- Urinalysis- says much about your Kidney and system
- EUCR- To check your kidney functions.
- HIV, Hepatitis B, Hepatitis C. (If you're sexually active)
Get your Hep B vaccination.
-Man- Sperm/ Seminal Fluid analysis- (if you're planning marriage or starting a family soon)
- Ladies, please get your Pap smear and Mammogram.
Get your HPV Vaccination reduces your risk of Cervical cancer
- Fasting Lipid profile- checks level of your blood fats
- Full blood count- To see your blood levels
Men, As you hit 40- 50s talk to your Doctor about Prostate cancer screening and Colonoscopy ( for both Men and Women)
In 2026, if you want to live longer, Avoid Alcohol and smoking.
Make these occasional routine tests.
My professor used to say, ‘Everything is hard until it’s not.’ I didn’t understand it back then, but I understand it now. The beginning is always the hardest part, but with consistency, the difficulty gradually loses its grip.