Honestly, we’re all waiting for just that one person to sit us down, look us in the eyes, and say, “I’m not giving up on you. You’re worth it. I’m going to treat you the way you deserve. I’m going to learn how to love you right. And I’m not going anywhere.”
Because deep down, we all crave that kind of love; the kind that stays even when things get messy, the kind that doesn’t run at the first sign of imperfection.
We want someone who doesn’t need us to be perfect to see our worth, someone who chooses us even on the days we feel unlovable.
We’re all tired of temporary people, of almosts, of maybes.
We’re just waiting for that one soul who understands that love isn’t about convenience; it’s about consistency.
Someone who shows up, who listens, who learns, and who chooses to stay, no matter how hard it gets.
Because in a world full of fleeting connections, that kind of love; the one that says “I’m here, always” is the rarest and most healing thing of all.
When we have a significant other, there's a reason that no one can make us feel better and no one can make us feel worse. It's the same reason that no one can bring out the best in us or the worst in us than that person.
That's why in lasting relationships, each partner has to take responsibility for the emotional environment they create for the other.
Ee. 😭😭 and for me its triggered quite quick. That quote that says “this is not how they would treat their dream girl” has also helped me excuse myself and save myself from nonsense
Not only do I love a man that I can call for everything, I love when a man wants to be called for everything. Never annoyed always ready to solve a problem.
It's actually healthy when people dislike you, that means you're not a people pleaser and you have boundaries. A lot of your problems come from not putting people in their place the first time they try you. Be careful what you tolerate.
You're teaching people how to treat you.
Wym I gotta work 8+ hours a day, have hobbies, go to the gym, drink water, clean the house, be a good friend, pray, read, pay bills, take out the trash, figure out what to eat for dinner, eat, keep my protein intake up, get 7+ hours of sleep, wash dishes, & not lose my mind
back when i was a depressed 17 year old on tumblr i saw a post that said "i was once 17 and depressed but now i'm listening to my husband play with our baby in the other room. it does get better" and i never forgot about that. now i am listening to my husband play with our baby in the other room
I’m sorry but I’ll be clubbing and having fun in my thirties . I’m 26 and haven’t done or experienced much in my twenties because of being so sheltered, isolated, and always working or in school. So I’ll be making up for it soon #dontcaree
the lore behind this shit is so funny like imagine being so bad at film/videography that your subject feels the need to publish a visual rebuttal to your product because you are so ass at your job