Totoo din noh? While we are growing up, we used to be with silence. We love being quiet & quiet places. Gusto mo lang yung tahimik o chill lang yung vibes. As we feel pain? There's silence, we are mad? There's silence. Silence has always been on your side and you never regret it.
Be rich. But never talk about money. Be fit. But never talk about working out. Be sharp. But never mention books. You're a man. Never let excitement make you announce things prematurely. Stay low-key and move silently. you'll never regret it.
Major cheat code for life: Every pattern in your life repeats until you learn the lesson. The moment you choose differently, the loop ends and growth begins.
study yourself. your patterns. habits. compulsions. trauma. anxieties. insecurities. addictions. once you see them, the unconscious becomes conscious. and the moment you know what they are and how they control you, you awaken. you become unstoppable.
Cutting a connection as a self respect is one the best kinds of healing noh? It’s completely fine if you are distancing yourself from people that are making you feel uncomfortable, it’s not intended to make them feel awkward, but just to protect yourself from any trouble.
Manipulative, controlling, narcissistic people don’t receive truth as insight. They receive it as supply, a challenge, or a reason to rewrite the story. Any “final words” you say, rarely bring closure. Even if it’s accurate, clear and justified, it won’t land the way you hope…
As a man, Be private, accept the loneliness, and fix your life. No one is coming to save you. Your life is 100% your responsibility. Do this to save yourself...