I donโt hate you. I pity you. Imagine spending your entire life convinced everyone else is the problem. Rewriting every story, avoiding every ounce of accountability. Demanding loyalty while giving none. No one could ever punish you more than the life you will spend trying to escape yourself.
@Stark3000Stark Too many people treat these things like theyโre fleeting ideas, just for the bedroom, or an aesthetic to sell something, and itโs beyond frustrating because itโs flooded things with people who donโt understand or just want to take advantage and get what they want.
@Stark3000Stark Thiiiis!! Iโve tried to describe to people that me being a Submissive and wanting a Dom/Sub dynamic in my relationships just feels like itโs a piece of who I am, itโs entwined in many aspect of myself and how I view/engage in sex and relationships
@subbylilly_ Honestly one of the more frustrating parts of being into DDLG is the presumptions of what it is and also how one chooses to engage in it, especially if youโre someone who lives the lifestyle more seriously and in real life not just online or as an aesthetic
I feel like conceptually Iโve always loved the idea of this kind of cage/hiding space, but I could only really do it for so long before it would start to physically hurt to be crouched down like that
When youโve survived a murder attempt, severe abuse, and so much disingenuousness, you learn to value those who truly put in the effort and take the time to show you theyโre not like those people from before, and actually mean it this time.
This is what I think trips people up when it comes to me, Iโm not playing the same games they are, I donโt lie, manipulate, or do things for personal gain. I love love, want to make friends, and just be able to enjoy life with genuine people who arenโt out to kill me or use me.
My secret is, I do what works for me. I don't bother a soul, I don't compare, I don't copy, I don't watch and I couldn't care less about anyone's perception of me. I genuinely support others unless you show me you're not deserving. I'm always in my own lane. Riding my own wave. With my eyes on my own prize.