Every time I speak to someone who says they have no friends or have never been in a relationship, it's almost always the case that they legitimately don't do anything.
basic cheat code on how to run laps around others
>put yourself in a position where you can focus on one thing for hours without getting distracted (reading is underrated)
>understand that communication skills are the #1 life hack
>learn how to ab(use) positive feedback loops
SPEED.
The amount you can get done in a day if you never stop working, never stop thinking, never stop seducing, texting, organising, vibing etc is fucking insane. The amount you can achieve within a day is genuinely reality bending. Your life can improve so much every day.
@nogeorgehere@JesterJum why do you need food assistance when you'd be making an extra $1,360 a month? It is more logical to work full time and receive employer benefits and advance your career rather than rely on welfare that is not bridging the gap anyway.
of course they envy you bro
you started with less privileges than them
less money than them
less connections then them
less help than them
and still outshined them all
The longer you grind, the more you realize:
People look exactly like the choices they make every day.
You can't fake effort.
You see it in how they move, how they show up, how they handle pressure. Talk fades. Discipline speaks. You either did the reps or you did not. You either sacrificed or you made excuses.
Real growth exposes the ones who want the results without the work.The ones who want the spotlight without the sweat. But the grind does not lie. You wear your choices. They show up in your energy, your habits, your mindset, your results.
So if you want different, choose different. Show up with intention.
Make decisions that your future self will thank you for. Because effort is visible, and so is the lack of it.
Be so committed to your own life that you genuinely do not have the time to watch everyone else's. No comparisons, no opinions about things that have nothing to do with you, no scrolling through someone else's highlight reel while ignoring your own work. Stay focused, stay devoted to yourself, and let everything else fade into the background where it belongs.
If your genetics are optimized for a Hunter
Gifted but labeled "ADHD" as a child is a good tell
You need to do the following, or you'll have a bad time until you do:
- Become self employed at all costs
- Disregard what others expect of you
- Disregard how you think things "ought to be"
- Disregard all programming that suggests you owe anyone anything until you've freed yourself (children and current mutually consensual agreements are the only exception)
- Follow whatever path feels like it leads to the highest GOOD
I'm a firm believer that everything always works out as long as you stay in motion. You don't even have to know what you're doing. You often won't. Just avoid spending the majority of your time in your head
Go out and talk to people. Tinker with shiny objects that stoke your curiosity. Follow excitement without judgement. Collect a story to tell. Don't label and categorize activities or wonder if you're being productive or not. Simply do things because you can and be engaged with whatever you're doing
If you can end each day having gained a bit more interestingness, absorbed a bit more inspiration, or experienced a bit more life, all is well. Embodying this feeling is all that's required for you to rest easy knowing you got ahead, because forward progress is measured by the energy you radiate rather than the outcomes you see
Now it's merely a simple matter of continuing to get ahead. Light on your feet, surrendering to the flow of reality. The path will appear in front of you. Lucky breaks, unpredictable blessings, lightbulb moments abound. Not a matter of if, but when. Trust yourself. Enjoy the journey. God will never lead you astray
@SaberDriift lol they usually sit in staggered pairs, watching both directions. So if they clearly see someone speeding in the other lane they radio for the downstream unit to keep an eye for you
The literal #1 most suicidal belief you can have is that you’re an introvert/socially anxious/don’t like people.
I was this guy until around 22. Thought I was better than everyone else and actively chose not to be social.
Life completely changed when I started interacting with random people and just trying to make them laugh. Opportunities opened up, made relationships with people I never thought possible. Everything was just less dull and boring. Every day was fun for no reason.
You cannot be a lone wolf. It’s a mental illness.
Life is meaningless without people.
@CarbonnierMatt@suitdotcom@roikets no, there are no laws like that anymore, and its a myth that anyone owns it. There ARE laws against diverting a large amount of water from the ecosystem to run your own water plant, but nothing against water falling on your own property.
@itselenabrooksx@BaneThe76451 as a woman you are being approached to give another guy your info, you simply tell him to fuck off and ignore him because you're with someone :>)