Zhinny||OniwaTutu

Your fav flower girl❤️🌺

[Zhinny||OniwaTutu @Zhinny8]

@_theladymo I sell home decor accessories and flowers

[ً @artfuIchaos]

and when the things on your vision board become the things on your camera roll, make sure you notice.

[M.eilar 🪻 @Karugiii]

Money. Masters. Mercedes

[Zhinny||OniwaTutu @Zhinny8]

Time is a gift ✨

[Sheriff Lobo @tahoe7teen]

These flash flood clips are absolutely terrifying because there’s no outrunning that, human life is extremely fragile and natural disasters always humble me. May all of their souls rest peacefully.

[Adesuwa💞💋 @faesuwa]

Me at home everyday. Me when I go out.

[Kaatib Yusuf @kaatibyusuf]

Muslim men of today do not seem to know what they want. We are stuck between “our women should stay at home and build our kids” and, in the same breath, we want them to be placed in positions of authority. These are, unfortunately, two parallel lines.

We cannot keep demanding two different versions of Muslim women depending on what we need from them. At home, we want the endlessly available wife and mother whose highest priority is the family. Outside the home, we suddenly want the highly educated woman, the executive, the entrepreneur, the professional, the woman capable of navigating institutions and carrying serious responsibility. Then we act surprised when she cannot simultaneously give each of these roles the entirety of herself.

There is nothing wrong with a woman being a mother, wife, scholar, entrepreneur or professional but we pretend all these responsibilities require nothing from her. Every serious role costs something. Leadership requires time. Motherhood requires time. Marriage requires time. Building a business requires time. Scholarship requires time. We should stop speaking as though a woman can be expected to give her absolute best to every sphere simultaneously without trade-offs.

If you believe your wife should devote herself primarily to raising your children and building the home, do not turn around and complain that Muslim women are absent from positions of influence. You cannot demand the product while dismissing the process that produces it.

Likewise, if you want Muslim women to become doctors, academics, entrepreneurs, executives, policymakers and leaders, then you must accept that some of them will have ambitions, responsibilities and commitments beyond the four walls of your home. You cannot applaud a Muslim woman when her competence benefits the Ummah and condemn that same competence when it makes demands on your own expectations of her.

Caution should also be given to Muslim women against accepting the premise that their worth is proven only when they occupy corporate offices or positions of authority. That is merely another form of reduction. A woman does not become more valuable because she becomes an executive, nor does she become less valuable because she chooses motherhood as the centre of her life.

What we need is not a Muslim woman who fits whatever role modern society or Muslim men happen to demand from her. We need a Muslim woman who is educated, grounded, competent and conscious of Allah, with the freedom and wisdom to know where her abilities are most needed at different stages of her life.

Before we start asking why Muslim women are not in more positions of authority, we should ask ourselves if we have we actually built families, marriages and communities that make it possible for women to exercise that authority without making them pay for it twice.

Because you cannot ask a woman to build the home, raise the children, support the husband, preserve the family, pursue education, build a career, lead institutions and serve the Ummah, then call her deficient when she inevitably has to choose where to spend her finite time and energy.

We need clarity. May Allãh grant us one.

[Sheni Coker @sheni_coker]

These people who get caught abroad, only God knows the atrocities they must have committed and gotten away with in Nigeria.

[Azalea♥ @OluwatomilolaDB]

I loved watching 1,000 ways to die as a child.💀

[𝙴𝚛𝚒𝚐𝚐𝚊 @erigganewmoney]

Just a reminder that when Scar took over Pride Rock, the hyenas starved too.

[꧁༒☬ 𝔾𝕒𝕓𝕣𝕚𝕖𝕝 ☬༒꧂ @Gabbrielxzn]

Drove my teenager 20mins to practice. Total silence, her choice. On minute 19 she said "you're like the only person I can be quiet with." Been thinking about that all day.

[🪷 @petalparadiseee]

Gosh, I love nasty heels

[Zhinny||OniwaTutu @Zhinny8]

You’re the birthday!😍❤️

[B @balqeesabd_]

🧚🏼‍♂️

[B @balqeesabd_]

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[miia @miiagarro]

turns out women get more autoimmune diseases from suppressed anger and trauma.. so basically every time you don't flip a table, your immune system takes a hit. moral of the story? throw the fuckin chair girl. it's preventative medicine

[B @balqeesabd_]

M.A’s birthday today. May Allah grant her jannah🧚🏼‍♂️

[Damdam🫶🏼 @dam_____dam]

‘you’ll not remain in your prime forever’

Exactly! From my prime to my primer, and primest as the prime minister that I am.😌

[@Pink.God @Alisesierra]

People who know a little bit about everything are so fun to talk to

[Dr.Meeza ᥫ᭡ @finewinee122]

I dislike how some women will see you putting the littlest effort into yourself and start telling you that marriage and childbirth will humble you.

[Zhinny||OniwaTutu @Zhinny8]

Ace parenting!

[Kaliyah C. @youngholy_k]

My girl cousin found a video in her sons phone of him throwing up gang signs , she took his phone & made him take up sign language classes for the whole summer since she said he wanna talk with his hands , that’s my type of carrying on .

[Halle Berry @halleberry]

60, here I come. 🥂✨