Passionate love is rare because it asks for too much at once.
It needs timing, recognition, courage, and two people who are available in the same season of life. Most of the time, one of those things is missing. Someone is healed enough, but the other is not ready. Someone feels it, but the other is already taken. Someone wants it, but they meet at the wrong moment.
It's also rare because it is not the same as liking someone, wanting someone, or being wanted. Passionate love is the moment a person becomes unforgettable. Your attention narrows. Ordinary life feels thinner beside them. That kind of intensity cannot happen every year. The nervous system couldn't survive it and the heart would not know what to do with it.
Culture pretends love is everywhere. Dating apps, songs, and constant choice make it look abundant. What is abundant is interest. What is rare is the feeling that this person rearranges you.
If you have felt it even once, you were lucky. If you are still waiting, you are not behind. You are waiting for something that does not come often and that is exactly why it matters when it does.❤️
e ho visto un film d’amore anche se non sono il tipo. Dio, che bella era l’attrice che mi ricordava te, perché amava un buono a nulla che sembrava tanto me
quanto è straziante vedere una persona che ami stare male senza poter fare nulla. ci si sente impotenti, assolutamente inutili! se solo ci fosse un modo per assorbire il loro dolore ed alleviare quel peso immenso