no😭its less about the bf and more about people being so self centered that they want to control other people’s lives. why would I not expect the s/o of any gender to be in a damn lingerie store with their partner?? ofc a man being a creep is different but like get over yourself
@stillofmynight > makes a crazy assumption about bi women publicly during pride month
> receives dozens of replies listing multiple bi women who are dating/married/did date women publicly and gets flamed for it
> wow the bisexual insecurity is crazy also let me move the goal post
i think it's very wierd yall are still on this topic of bisexual women dating men because isn't that what bisexuality is about ?? genuinely don't understand why we need to keep having this discussion because there are celeb women who date other women and are bi
@stillofmynight@percbether another point- i know you’re speaking on the sapphic representation with bisexuality but you also have to understand that even tho a bisexual woman is dating a man she is still in fact bisexual, so why not take on sapphic rolls? why not talk about women
@stillofmynight@percbether i just feel like the homophobia is always louder and with the way questions are worded ppl don’t even realize the rhetoric that they lean into. then we end up having to “prove it” that’s the part that feels icky, that’s part of the animosity
@stillofmynight@percbether that’s not what i’m saying i don’t think ur trying to do the last part at all, i just think that you either don’t realize or care how having this same question asked to bi women over and over and have it answered over and over comes across aggressive in its own way
@stillofmynight@percbether just like you said in ur other tweet all that stuff you mentioned, the homophobia, biphobia specifically, misogyny- and sometimes a lot of people see two women together and assume they’re lesbians, i can’t speak for celebrities but pls hear us when we telling the rep we do have
@stillofmynight@percbether i just feel like the homophobia is always louder and with the way questions are worded ppl don’t even realize the rhetoric that they lean into. then we end up having to “prove it” that’s the part that feels icky, that’s part of the animosity
@stillofmynight@percbether i just wanted to express that there is more to it than what is just being seen, sometimes these conversations are hard to have because it often feels like there is a box i have to explain myself out of before we get on one accord, sapphic leaning bi women are prominent i promise
@stillofmynight@percbether it’s really the generalization that be taking shit to where ppl can’t have a productive conversation. and not every bi woman is the same or experiences love the same yall seem to think 95% of bisexual woman only love on men and fuck on women
@stillofmynight@percbether cuz yall easy to read you say the shit like you really wanna talk about it but when you quiet literally ask for ONE example and get TWO it means nothing. and w/ the stats like i said the first time don’t you think their private dating history is also important???
Back when i was a gloomy teenager i started smiling as a habit cause i thought it would trick my brain into releasing happiness hormones, it didn’t work but it made me look more friendly and thus people approached me more which was what ultimately lifted up my mood.
As another bisexual, this is just not it.
It’s not lesbians’s fault that lesbophobia is a thing.
Lesbians don’t “deserve” to their identity constantly questioned, scrutinized and disrespected by cishets and GBTQ people alike