As a man, if you have aunties or sisters, your first marriage isnโt as much about you as it is about them.
You can be as rigid as concrete, but those people will find a way to bend you to their demands when the time comes.
Dear Anonymous,
I spent my entire university life at ABU Zaria hitting back to back first class GPA for 6 semesters in Political Science. My very first GPA was 4.79/5.00 which was the overall best in the whole faculty of social science consisting of over 600 students. I maintained it for almost my entire university life.
Unfortunately, In the first semester of my final year, my CGPA dropped to 4.47 exactly like you, with just one semester to go (see my pinnned tweet). I needed a 5.00 GPA in the final semester including research project to achieve my dream of graduating with a first class and breaking the record in a program that no one believed first class was possible. I was stuck between giving up to avoid last minute heartbreak or try to break a longstanding record as first class in political science was impossible for over 40years and hitting 5.00 CGPA in final semester was something students used to say only God could achieve. The two final year courses were enough hell, but I also needed โAโ in research project which further complicated things. Hundreds have tried, Hundreds have failed. People used to mock me in the library saying โhaba scholar, in the end itโs just second class upperโ just like those who tried before me.
However, I remained focused and locked in with hardwork and prayers. I had to travel twice to my village, stayed for weeks without electricity just to get data for my final year project. I stayed back in school during first semester holiday while everyone else went home to their families. During the dark days of no light on campus, I used ABU streetlights to study outside. Sometimes, I entered the bush behind the hostel to sit around trees to study during exams when libraries got overcrowded (until snake killed one old woman). Those who were close to me said I was going crazy and nicknamed me โbooksโ.
Today, I am proud to tell you that I have a record breaking first class degree from ABU which has changed my life forever. I featured in several newspapers & blogs for achieving the impossible, bagged a fully funded EU scholarship which resulted in me bagging two more first class degrees from the UK & Netherlands and currently working as the only black Analyst in my team at a silicon valley tech giant with a less than 1% global job acceptance rate.
All these dreams were possible because I didnโt give up
I didnโt listen to people
I worked hard and prayed and the almighty lifted me in his blessings.
I hope my story motivates you and others like you who are considering giving up.
And if you see this, please send me a DM I would like to know & support you personally.
And accumulate so much wealth to display luxury. Eventually, this thought left me with one disturbing question: Can Nigeria withstand another 10 years? ๐ค
For over 50 years, Nigeria is still battling with the same hurdles: healthcare, education, infrastructure, and electricity. Added to that is the advent of insecurity and depleted economy. Not a single leaders was able to effectively suppressed one of them.
Looking at the bigger picture perspective, corruption is the genesis of all the problems. Things would be change around, if it would he taken care of. Unfortunately, politics is now seen as a business. People get engaged in it not to impact positive change, but to put in a show
@Usouph@Iamindo0 I doubt that. Thereโs only a few to count, take a look around. Nigeriaโs problems go beyond that. The most literate ones amongst us have been given the chance to change, yet, with a little positive results to show. The environment is not enabling and itโs a grassroots problem