I go toe-toe with parents because there will be NO SHIFTLESS, NO ACCOUNT NEGROES under my purview.
No he cannot do nothing, whine, bitch & moan.
He’s going to stand up & face the work. He’s gonna clean after himself. He’s going to be accountable
Not being dependent on any man is so cool because you don’t have to care at all. It’s nice if you do eventually fall in love and if he takes great care of you but it’s so awesome to actually be able to be ok by yourself. 10 stars!
@NotAntXIV Also need to be stealth about it. Too many people want to show of which is a big part of the dismantling attitudes we see at varying levels of society. Too many people think we got too big for our britches
btw in your 20's and 30’s you’ll start rediscovering the niche interests and hobbies you had as a kid. it’s very important you revisit them. your younger self was actually on to something.
People don’t leave voicemails anymore and it’s very strange. I’m not calling you back if you don’t tell me what you want. Bad enough you callin anyway.
I have a question for Black men. When you were a boy, were you encouraged to be happy?
I literally have to teach these boys how to be happy. Their default is to appear miserable & speak negatively. If we take a picture, they go out of their way to look unhappy.