Some men really expect access to a peaceful woman while bringing absolutely nothing but inconsistency, confusion, and "I'm trying" speeches to the table. Sir... respectfully...
I can struggle by myself for free.
Those lil “tests” men do on women to check their temp, vibe or whatever… yeah, I’m telling you now, I will absolutely fail one of those. I’m incredibly self-centered not male-centered.
I used to drive myself insane overexplaining someone’s level of inconsideration, only to be gaslit and met with a condescending tone when I approached the conversation in a healthy, respectful way. You HAVE to leave people where they’re at.
In order to heal, it’s imperative that we completely let go. Surrender the hurt. Surrender the pain. Surrender the desire for your side to be understood. Surrender the love that once was. Surrender the anxiety of what’s to come next in your life. It’s time to move on, my friend.
I had a realization a few years ago that I don't need to figure out why this person is doing a certain behavior I dislike. All that matters is I know I don't like the behavior and I can leave
I’ve been speaking up about my feelings more and I love that for me I used to hold things in and not hold people accountable for how they treat me and make me feel but now I make mfs just as uncomfortable as they made me by expressing to them what they did people hate that