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The same men who call modern women delusional (and I’m not arguing against that) are often delusional themselves.
These men act as if they’re single;
no check-ins,
no follow-through.
Then they act shocked when that same mindset destroys their ability to hold a committed relationship.
That requires putting someone else ahead of their own wants
Example: A man stays married for decades, both spouses get complacent, and they divorce.
Now single, he dates women who also want to stay single
the ones with multiple red flags.
Over time, his habits (not calling, flaking, coming and going freely) become normal.
Suddenly her red flags look like green flags because he doesn’t want a woman who’ll actually requires change
Meaning a woman who has lots of green flags will end up becoming “too much responsibility” for him
So he purposely is attracted to women who require just fun, no commitment
That’s not strength.
That’s fragility and avoidance
Real integrity means leveling up and keeping your word, even when it’s hard and an inconvenience.
Singles who refuse that stay single for a reason.
Single people are single for a reason:
They can’t keep their word.
After decades of analyzing both singles and married people, the biggest differentiating factor is integrity.
Singles fly by the seat of their pants:
no check-ins,
no follow-through
broken commitments
They act like they’re the only person in the world and don’t consider the other person
Not “in the mood”?
Something better comes along?
They ghost.
When you combine selfishness and no integrity, you stay single.
I’ve seen this pattern too many times not to know the signs.
Next time someone complains the dating world is messed up, remember: they’re not innocent.
Women today are fed unrealistic ideas about marriage so they try to outsource responsibility to their husbands.
So yes, women will sleep with men who won’t commit, then marry a guy they’re not truly attracted to.
And put restrictions on their husbands all to dodge the responsibilities that come with real commitment.
marriage is a vow that includes a full, intimate sex life.
That’s part of the vows.
It’s a wife’s job to keep that alive and not breadcrumb her husband just to avoid putting in the work.
Historically women understood if they wanted to be the wife of a general they needed to either marry a young lieutenant and grow with him, or be willing to marry a 40-50 year old already established general when she herself was 18-25, and come to that established man as a virgin.
These days, social media seems to have convinced a lot of women that a 20 year old man should have the accomplishments of a general and if he doesn't, he's a loser, and that she's free to pursue "option three" which is "squander the 20s and into the 30s with meaningless hedonism, and then at 42 marry a 45 year old general who built on his own without you being in his life."
Most men don't consider it an honor and privilege to be picked last, and used as a retirement plan, by a woman who gave her best years to other men and never would have picked him 25 years earlier when he was just beginning to build.
Most men aren't going to be millionaires in their 30s or multimillionaires in their 40s.
Most Americans who become millionaires reach their first million between 45 and 50.
In a new video, Jo Frost, aka Supernanny, warns that some modern parents are hindering their kids’ independence by choosing short-term convenience over teaching basic life skills.
The Instagram post featuring the video is filled with comments from teachers agreeing with her that it’s a growing concern.
@Jo_Frost
Making an intentional choice to BE a wife is more powerful than any marriage advice out there.
You can follow every “good deed” to the letter, but until you consciously decide to embrace the obligations that come with being a wife with gratitude…
nothing else matters.
It’s a heart-level decision that changes everything.
This is at the Narrows along the Virgin River in Zion National Park, Utah.
This Buck came bouncing through as if to say “why are y’all doing in my house?” 😳
Masculine young boy, not giving a care in the world but also still being considerate. That’s a lot of people in there at one time. 💯
Zion National Park is breathtaking. If you ever get the chance, go visit it someday.
Have you ever been there before? Isn’t that Buck and scenery gorgeous?
maturing is realizing none of us are easy to be with. It's about who's willing to stay committed to understanding you and actually wants to grow with you