I feel like people don't understand that confrontation is, in fact, an act of grace. I'm putting an issue to you because I care. This is me giving you the benefit of a doubt. It's an opportunity to share your perspective and for us to reach a conclusion.
And with confrontational people, the only acceptable outcome is them being right and the conversation going exactly as theyโve planned. You canโt ask for examples or details because then youโre gaslighting. You canโt disagree and share your perspective, because again: gaslighting
Either I confront you or I ghost you, those are the options
It's important to bring up if there's an issue with someone you love (including friends!), but it's also important to be a safe person for loved ones to confront too
I feel like people don't understand that confrontation is, in fact, an act of grace. I'm putting an issue to you because I care. This is me giving you the benefit of a doubt. It's an opportunity to share your perspective and for us to reach a conclusion.
And with confrontational people, the only acceptable outcome is them being right and the conversation going exactly as theyโve planned. You canโt ask for examples or details because then youโre gaslighting. You canโt disagree and share your perspective, because again: gaslighting
@asiwasZaying Exactly. If I don't confront you, it's because I've already concluded that you're the villain and a conversation will do nothing to change that.
2. Cropped Trousers
A little bit more adventurous than a full-length pair, cropped trousers can come in many silhouettes. Some are made with full-hips that taper towards the hem, others are slim but looser from the knee down, or even just wide all the way down, amongst many other cuts. The minor length difference between a full length and a cropped length opens up the possibilities of new silhouettes to play with.
Pros:
- Good for showing off boots
- Fits different heights and body types
- When done well, trousers start looking purposefully architectural rather than simply a garment to avoid nakedness
Cons:
- The wrong lengths may invite comments about floods
- Finding the right length and silhouette takes a bit of trial and error, as well as a tacit understanding of oneโs body shape
Pitfall:
- Never go too tight and too short, or they risk looking like capris, which were trendy in the late 90s.
A lot of you women are living in La la land fr, and at some point you need to sit up and stop making menโs money the centre of your life. Please face your life and work for your own money. Financial independence is not just about being able to afford nice things. Itโs also about having choices, maintaining your dignity and being able to leave situations that no longer serve you.
@dColorOfBoom "I am wrong vs I did wrong" THIS!!! and also, sometimes maybe you weren't in the wrong. Share your perspective, maybe I'm just not understanding something.
Not to sound like a scorned single person, but normies are quick to enter relationships with people just because theyโre attracted to each other, have a good conversation or two, and both like dogs and Netflix.