@BrianMPeter This is precisely the kind of hell modern living has created for this so-called civilized world. A slow, deliberate life, devoid of corporate slavery is the gold standard of intentional living for most of us.
@alexnjenga@alphyjazz@ICEALION Additionally, don't forget their mastery in selling fear when marketing their products. You will hear phrases like "oh, ile siku gari itaibiwa; oh, ile siku accident ya write-off itakupata; oh tutasimama na wewe..."
@alphyjazz@alexnjenga@ICEALION Bwana, hao watu walinipeleka merry-go-round once some 4 yrs ago nikasema wacha tuende the TPO way. Hiyo kitu itafanyikia gari wacha tu ifanyike.
There is a financial mistake many people make and it affects everyone, no matter how much they earn.
They spend everything they earn.
Month after month, money comes in and is immediately allocated to expenses, lifestyle, and responsibilities. By the end of it all, there is nothing left to save, nothing left to invest, and nothing left to build from.
It doesn’t matter whether someone earns a little or a lot. Without structure, the outcome is often the same. As income increases, spending increases with it, and the financial position remains unchanged.
Savings create stability.
They give you something to fall back on when life becomes unpredictable. They reduce pressure and provide a sense of control.
Investments create growth.
They take what you have set aside and allow it to multiply over time. They move you forward, beyond just earning.
Without the two, your financial life remains dependent on your next paycheck and that is a fragile position to be in.
The challenge is that many people approach saving the wrong way.
They treat it as something to do at the end of the month. If anything is left, they save. If not, they try again next month.
This is why saving and investing must come first.
@MathuAlfred@cheruiyotkb You're welcome. Keep doing the great job you are doing in financial literacy. For the savings/investments plan: I am already a few years in.
@Naomikibandi@georgediano On the first part of your sentence, I agree. She got bored, as women in marriages inevitably do. However, prayers won't solve anything. Modern marriages can't work!
In order to achieve many of the things people aspire to in life, one thing is almost always required.
A lump sum of money.
You need a lump sum of money to start or expand a business.
A lump sum to retire comfortably.
A lump sum to educate your children.
A lump sum to take advantage of opportunities when they arise.
Without it, even the best plans remain ideas. The challenge, however, is that this kind of money does not appear all at once.
Very few people wake up to a large amount of money sitting in their account. For most, income comes in gradually,
month by month.
This is where it often goes wrong. People keep waiting; waiting to earn more, waiting for extra money, waiting for life to feel less tight, but that moment rarely comes.
A lump sum of money is not created in a single moment, it is built gradually, over time.
It comes from consistent saving, disciplined investing, and making intentional decisions about how your money is used.
Stop waiting for a BIG Breakthrough, start consistently saving and investing, the earlier you begin the better.
There is a trap that keeps many people stuck financially.
It doesn’t always look like poor decisions. In many cases, it looks like loyalty, friendship, and the desire to “return the favor.”
You may be going through a difficult season, trying to hold things together. Then a friend steps in, calls you out on a Friday, buys nyama, covers drinks, and lifts your mood. In that moment, it feels like support, and it is.
But when your situation improves, even slightly, a different pressure begins to build. The need to give back. To show appreciation. To maintain those relationships.
So instead of stabilizing your finances, paying rent ahead, sorting your essentials, creating some breathing room you start directing your money towards “returning the hand.”
And before long, you find yourself back where you started.
The truth is, you would have survived without those nights. But you may not move forward without structure.
Not every act of kindness needs to be repaid financially. Not every friendship should be maintained through spending. At some point, you have to decide what comes first, approval or progress.
Take care of your responsibilities first. Create stability. Build your base.
Then, when you give, you do so from a position of strength.