You can't walk away from every violent situation with your girlfriend or wife.
And you shouldn't.
Quarrels are part of relationship or marriage.
You are the man who is the leader and must look for ways to deescalate the situation.
And then you assess the genesis of it and learn from it.
Women are naturally strong headed and daring.
Especially to men that have seen their nakedness.
You'll never find a perfect woman.
But you must find a woman that you can lead and she'll learn to be submissive to you as a wife.
Because submission is earned and not a given just because you're her husband.
A woman does not automatically become a submissive wife just because you have married her.
How you lead her will determine how well she'll be submissive to you.
So you need to prepare your mind.
Women will always act like adult babies.
Will you disown your child just because he or she is throwing some tantrums?
Women throw tantrums frequently.
As long as she's with the man who she sees as her boyfriend or husband.
Stop judging women romantically from the way your female colleagues or bosses behave in the office.
End.
You miss a penalty with your team already trailing, then watch them concede a second goal moments later. The stadium goes silent, the fans lose hope, and everyone writes you off. Most players would disappear mentally after that.
Not Lionel Messi.
At 39 years old, after all the criticism about his mentality throughout his career, he responded in the only way he knows how.
Football is like a movie—you should never celebrate before the final whistle.
At halftime, Ronaldo fans and Messi haters came out in full force. “Finished.” “FIFA boy.” “Flop.” Then Egypt made it 2–0, and X was flooded with posts mocking Messi, as if they had forgotten he already settled every debate in 2022 and had nothing left to prove.
Then came the plot twist.
Messi assisted Romero to make it 2–1. Minutes later, he produced a breathtaking equalizer for 2–2. Finally, Lisandro Martínez set up Enzo Fernández for the winner. From 2–0 down to 3–2. A remarkable remontada.
The villains always celebrate too early.
And somehow, in every football story, Lionel Messi is always the hero. 🐐🇦🇷
I’m going to take my time with this one. If you’re busy, save this post and read it later. If you’re a night owl like me, this is a good late-night read.
Do you know the worst thing about Cristiano Ronaldo?
It’s that he set the standards for what defines a legend… and in the end, he couldn’t even live up to the standards he created himself.
After winning Euro 2016, Ronaldo said:
“You can’t become a legend until you win a trophy with your national team.”
It was an obvious dig at Messi.
Argentina had just lost the 2014 World Cup final to Germany, and Messi was going through the toughest period of his international career. Those words only added fuel to the fire.
Where was the respect for a rival, Ronaldo?
The surprising part was that social media completely embraced that narrative. Messi was labeled a bottler, while Ronaldo was declared the winner of the rivalry—at least in the media, not on the pitch.
Then Messi retired from international football, came back, won the Copa América, and suddenly they were level in major international trophies.
What happened next?
Ronaldo fans started saying that one Euro is worth more than a hundred Copa Américas, claiming there was no competition in South America. Not true—but that became the excuse.
Then Messi went on to win the World Cup.
This time, the excuses changed again.
They claimed FIFA had fixed the tournament for Messi. That the World Cup was scripted in his favor. They simply didn’t know what else to say.
Then Ronaldo himself came out with one of the strangest quotes imaginable:
“A legend’s career can’t be defined by just seven games.”
At first glance, it sounds reasonable.
But beneath it was another attempt to diminish what Messi had achieved.
Before the World Cup, they insisted it would be Ronaldo’s tournament. On paper, Portugal had a fantastic squad. If the manager couldn’t get the best out of them, that’s Portugal’s problem—not Ronaldo’s.
Yet that same Portugal squad wasn’t any weaker than the Argentina team Messi led to the 2014 World Cup final—the same team people mocked Messi for not carrying to the title.
Just a couple of days ago, Ronaldo said:
“The World Cup doesn’t define my career, whether I win it or not.”
A statement that directly contradicts what he had said years earlier, when he admitted that winning the World Cup would make him feel completely fulfilled.
Now you’re 41 years old, Cristiano.
By your own standards:
* You have 5 Ballon d’Ors, not 8.
* You have one European Championship, not two Copa América titles.
* You never won the World Cup.
* You have four European Golden Shoes, while Messi has six—even though you’re an out-and-out striker.
So what now?
Will you keep playing until the next World Cup and become the first player to appear in one at 45, hoping to finally win it?
If we judged you by the standards you created, you wouldn’t qualify as a legend.
Of course, nobody actually judges you that way. Everyone still recognizes you as one of football’s greatest legends.
The real mistake was comparing Ronaldo to Messi in the first place.
That rivalry was exaggerated from the beginning by the media and figures like José Mourinho.
Messi conquered every major trophy available to him, shattered records that once seemed untouchable, and at 39 years old he’s still competing with Kylian Mbappé and Erling Haaland—the stars of the next generation—for the Golden Boot. And honestly, he could still win it.
What made Messi beloved by so many fans is that he never tried to diminish Ronaldo’s achievements.
Ronaldo, on the other hand, repeatedly made comments that many interpreted as attempts to downplay his greatest rival’s accomplishments—and that’s never an admirable trait.
Cristiano helped create a generation that thinks belittling other people’s achievements while constantly glorifying your own is a way to establish dominance.
Good bye. Ronaldo.
Now Cristiano Ronaldo has bad teammates, a bad coach, and suddenly it’s all the system’s fault?
Isn’t that exactly what happened to Messi? Yet back then you called him a bottler and spent years tearing him apart to the point that he retired from international football in 2016.
So now there’s context? Now there are excuses?
Cristiano Ronaldo is a legend who never needed a World Cup or a European Championship to prove his greatness in the first place.
Yet in 2016, none of you could stop talking because your idol had just won Euro 2016. Wasn’t it him who said that you have to win a trophy with your national team, otherwise you can’t be considered the greatest? A pretty obvious shot at Messi.
Fine then. Let’s use your own standards.
Messi won the Copa América. He won the World Cup. He has more Ballon d’Ors, more FIFA Best awards, and better overall career numbers.
Weren’t those the superficial standards you’ve been using against everyone else for years?
Messi is the greatest of all time—and not because of those achievements alone—but now it’s time to admit it. He didn’t leave a single argument standing against him. Even by your own superficial criteria, he won every single one.
This is the greatest checkmate in football history. It’s like playing chess against someone who unknowingly makes all the right moves for you instead of themselves. That’s exactly what Ronaldo fans ended up doing.
Happy Fathers' Day to all the Dads in the house. Today is for you. Your sacrifices will not be in vain and I hope life is much kinder to you.
Cheers to Fatherhood 🍷
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