Nobody apologizes anymore; they just disappear and call it moving on. Accountability died somewhere between pride and ego. People would rather lose someone than admit they were wrong. We’ve normalized walking away instead of working through it. Communication has become optional; ghosting has become the standard response to discomfort. Even closure isn’t guaranteed anymore—people just leave you with questions and call it self-care.
choose a man who calls you after an argument just to make sure you're okay, not someone who leaves you alone with your thoughts while you cry. choose the one who wants to fix things, not win them. the one who stays, listens, and talks things through even when it's hard. someone who cares more about your feelings than his pride. because healthy love is not about never arguing. it's about knowing that even in the middle of a disagreement, you still matter to each other.
I dislike someone who always thinks I have malicious intent or I’m lying or I’m intentionally doing everything like you really don’t fw me and you’re constantly grasping at anything I do to affirm your preexisting resent
It really sucks when ppl don’t realize how much I sacrifice to accommodate them. How much I give up, change, or inconvenience myself to make things easier for them.
best thing i ever decided to do was just be quiet..... i have nothing to say. i'm not convincing nobody that i'm a great person, i'm not trying to fix shit i didn't break. i'm not fighting for nobody to see my worth. whatever you do is on you, better hope you don't regret it.
In seasons of uncertainty, I look at myself in the mirror and remember: I have survived every version of life that once scared me. I may not know what comes next, but I know who I am.
I don’t know if I’m the only one, but books have never felt like words on a page to me.
I see the people. I hear their voices. I watch the scenes happen. 😭
Tell me I’m not the only one whose brain turns reading into cinema.
being a self-aware person doesn't mean i view myself as a good person. i think a lot of people get that confused. it literally means that i am vigilant of both my light and dark side. i have also made peace with my flaws even though i'm always working through them