Once you grow up, you realize you don't want to be crazy in love. You want to be calm in love, stable in love, understood in love, safe in love. Your partner should give you peace of mind and reassurance, not constant little heart attacks, and high anxiety. Because like shoes, if it hurts you, then it's not your size.
Growing up hearing “Wikipedia isn't a valid source” and then entering a workplace where people say “just ask ChatGPT” is a surprisingly strange timeline