i’m having the most peaceful crashout of my life rn.. like i’m going insane, but also just chilling and vibing. i’m stressed about a bunch of stuff, but at the same time i’m not. i don't know how to explain it..
Things that look like love:
Sex
Calling all the time
Obsessions/Attention
Going out all the time
Gifts and money
What love really is:
Respect
Forgiveness
Trust
Sacrifice
Commitment
Having each other's back
Common goals
Evolving together
Communication
People that continue to lie even after they’ve been caught really make me look at them differently. They’re so committed to protecting the lie that they would rather lose you completely than experience the discomfort of accountability and honesty. That’s scary.
A cheating woman is bad enough. But do you know what's even worse??
A woman who pretends to be good, but in reality, she's a pathological liar, a lustful manipulator, and an expert at playing the victim.
I spent years living like this (except the debt) looking at the ceiling fantasizing about exactly how I live now, everything eventually works out for the delusional optimist imo