i want to read 10 books a day and consume all poetry and learn new languages and study different majors and pick up pottery and learn how to play instruments and own a bookstore and run a cafe and
@amor_fatti Intelligence is just potential
Potentially more painful
Potentially more insightful
The dark will be darker
but the light will be brighter.
In either case it take this trial to discover
You control the view.
do I really shut down when I’m not feeling heard or is it “I’m recognizing how this space isn’t safe for me, so I won’t try to seek your understanding any further”
If you lack emotional intelligence we will never work out fr. I’m not teaching you how to apologize, how to take accountability, or how to treat me with respect. These are basic qualities you should already possess before entering a relationship.