The only reason some of you are blaming the girl is because your boyfriends did not kïll you when you visited them. Some of you met your boyfriends on the road, exchange contacts and visited them in their house after then. What’s the difference?
Some of you met your fiance/husband online, if he had kïlled you or robbed you, it would have been the same story.
If the relationship had worked out and they got married, they would have shared their love story of “from TikTok to altar” and some of you here will be doing “God when”
How it should be. Take it and still spit in their faces. It is not even a bribe. It is YOUR hard-earned right. They used public funds to buy them. It is yours.