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@oku_yungx The only people that had issues under him were politicians or political elites who hated his policy. The people were okay.
Nigeria was well represented in all gaming events and they did well.
See, I have lived among people that will disagree to agree, they have a way of talking things out and over the years they don't need to drag issues again to make a decision. Growing together makes both partners think alike. You just discover certain things no longer bring arguments or big talk, you guys just flow. That lady that refused to share money because she felt she had arrived should have taken her time to settle things with her husband. It takes lots of trust, pain and hardwork to sponsor another adult to a new country, the least you can do (if no DV) is to always communicate your thoughts and make him come around. If she has stayed in that marriage, by the time they are 15yrs in, she would have looked back and seen that leaving was not the best.
@the_Lawrenz I saw the video, the truth is that family is not safe. I read in the comments (on tiktok) that SA police mostly support these guys no matter what they do to a foreigner, that family should relocate from that house, fast.
@_OmoJesse@dammy4trueluv The problem is we don’t agree that we will both hurt each other and also forgive each other because that’s all it takes,there’s no way there will be no fights or disagreements but are really willing to take accountabilities when necessary,most modern women believe it’s men duty.
Obviously she likes social media validation, she ignored or lived with these red flags until she starts earning her own money in a system she knows can protect her, why not divorce him in Nigeria?
The lady that has been begging her husband in Germany to sign her papers so that she doesn't get deported started like this.
They are both adults.
This is 2026. I wish her well.
If you asked anyone who has been married for decades (over 20yrs) they would tell you they don't always feel the "butterfly in my tummy" that is being projected everywhere but they will tell you some things that makes them stay. Marriage is a ship with two imperfect humans who have made a commitment to remain together and build a world (with children in-between) of their own. How you build it is on both of you.