Girl to girl: be that girl again.
Get disciplined again. Take care of yourself again. Eat better & move your body again. Oil your edges & drink your water again. Start praying & reading your Bible again. Get your money up and sleep 8 hours again. Find your spark and put yourself first.
There's nothing you're gonna get from going back to your ex. The cycle never ends, whatever made you leave the first time will definitely repeat itself. Go out there and meet new people, let people from the past remain in the past
Get ready to hear these words soon:
Congratulations, you're hired.
Congratulations, you're approved.
Congratulations, you're accepted.
Congratulations, you're promoted.
Congratulations, you passed.
Claim it!
Habakkuk 2:3 is a reminder not to panic over delays. Just because it has not happened yet does not mean God has forgotten or that it won’t come to pass at the right time.
Somewhere in your 20s or 30s you’ll get the opportunity to rebuild your life after a negative loop, heal from what broke you, live in your own space, reconnect with your discipline, and learn to love yourself again. It’s very important that you see that journey through.
Love after 25 is different. You’re not looking for sparks. You’re looking for stability, kindness and shared goals. You’ve outgrown games and butterflies. You’re craving peace, emotional safety, and someone whose future aligns with yours.