Brown Sugar Bang

Go where you're celebrated.
Freckled, Spectacled, Unapologetically Fat.

[Gary Chambers @GaryChambersJr]

Had to get the business clear with Officer Tatum about a few things.

When Black people talk about the lack of resources in our communities that isn’t about asking for handouts. It’s about making sure our tax dollars come back to our communities like everyone else’s.

When conservatives funded snap, it was because they didn’t want to hurt the business owners.

When I talk about schools, roads, parks, and public investment, I’m talking about fairness and accountability—not charity.

People like Tatum are why I created Civics for the People to inform and engage people against the nonsense people like him spew.

Support Civics for the People by clicking the link in my bio so we can keep educating people on how government works and how to use that knowledge to create change.

I’m not new this, I’m true at this.

Share if you care. 🦾

[Brown Sugar Bang @_SoftJuju]

Oxentail 😆😆

[IG: olesoul57.2 ♉️ 5/12 @olesoul57_2]

While programs are being cut, our Black farmers are building:

🌱 A cooperative food system
📦 1 Million fresh food boxes
🚛 Distribution across multiple states
🤝🏾 Direct farmer-to-community connections

This is what resilience looks like.

Visit: https://t.co/eaiMhFLd23 

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[James🔻 @GoodVibePolitik]

Let’s analyze an example of propaganda in media courtesy of Jon Stewart.

[Brown Sugar Bang @_SoftJuju]

Self-pay is definitely the way to go in some circumstances.

[Brown Sugar Bang @_SoftJuju]

💯

[imjus.Ke🧜🏽‍♀️✨ @ksdotlewis]

Yall so use to shopping online yall forgot the importance of trying things on to see if it fits before you buy it.

[Nsikan @CkanJohnson]

When you sexualize a conversation early, you’re not just flirting or testing the waters. You’re fundamentally reframing what kind of interaction this is. And the other person has to decide, right then, whether they’re willing to operate inside that frame. If they were interested in you as a person, curious about your thoughts, drawn to your energy, maybe even attracted but not ready to make it the center of everything yet, you’ve just asked them to skip about seven steps.

Most people won’t tell you that you’ve done this. They’ll just drift. They’ll match your energy for a bit out of politeness, or awkwardness, or because they’re trying to figure out if they misread you. But the curiosity is gone. You’ve answered a question they weren’t asking yet.

I think this happens because we confuse attraction with urgency. Like, if you feel it, you have to do something about it immediately, or the moment dies. But real attraction doesn’t actually work like that. It builds. It breathes. It happens in the margins of normal conversation, in the way someone laughs at your joke, or the fact that they remembered something you said three days ago, or the split second where you both go quiet and it doesn’t feel empty.

There’s this idea that if someone’s really into you, they’ll match your sexual energy right away. That anything else is just performance or playing games. But that assumes everyone experiences desire on the same timeline, in the same way. Some people feel attraction as a slow burn. It starts as intrigue, then comfort, then one day they look at you differently and suddenly it’s there. For them, leading with sex isn’t authentic, it’s disorienting. It doesn’t feel like honesty. It feels like a test they didn’t know they were taking.

When you sexualize too soon, you’re collapsing all of that into a single transaction. You’re saying, “I want to know if this is going somewhere now.” And maybe it was. But now they have to wonder if you were ever interested in them, or just interested in what they represent.

The fumble isn’t that you expressed desire. It’s that you made desire the whole conversation before there was anything else to hold it up.

[BLK LOVERSS @BLKLOVERSSS]

Me & who??

[Brown Sugar Bang @_SoftJuju]

Where's he at?

[Noeleen @noeleensaid]

A big part of me has lost faith in men as romantic partners but having a reliable and stable man as a partner looks very lovely.

[アイビー °❀.࿔ @thegolden_ivy]

A man yapping about his nerdy passions is something I will NEVER get tired of

[Muna @Munalozy]

Calling me when you're sad because the people you're enjoying life with can't pour into you like I can is no longer on my roaster.

Be safe though. ❤

[Sonia @BalogunSonia4]

I fell in love with this sentence:
“Forgive yourself for not knowing earlier what only time could teach.”

[Brown Sugar Bang @_SoftJuju]

🤣☠️

[💋HisFaceMySeat💅🏾 @CoochieBaDucci]

@SixBrownChicks This post smells like sandalwood and ass

[Spura maluda🤎💅🏽 @puseletso_noofy]

I’m glad I learned this early . You can never hurt someone that doesn’t give a damn about you unfortunately.

[Brown Sugar Bang @_SoftJuju]

Before the lover girl in me takes her last gasping breath, please and thank you. #intothevoid

[Solyricon @Solyricon]

There’s a man out there praying for a woman exactly like you. Don’t settle for less.

[Brown Sugar Bang @_SoftJuju]

The genres I listened to most this year.

[Brown Sugar Bang @_SoftJuju]

These artists topped my listening this year. #SpotifyWrapped
https://t.co/huZRVHCUl7

[. @southernsiren__]

gonna actually try to CONSISTENTLY cultivate connections with ppl i think are cool instead of keeping them at bay bc of social anxiety and other untrue things i tell myself about my ability/inability to make friends due to familial trauma’s impact on me. wish me luck.