The most destructive piece of internet lore ever created is the phrase: "If they wanted to, they would."
It sounds empowering, but it is actually deeply narcissistic. It assumes that a person’s actions are dictated 100% by their desire for you, while completely ignoring their capacity.
A partner can desperately want to give you the world, but if they are fighting a silent financial war, battling burnout, or dealing with a health crisis, their capacity is at zero. Measuring a stressed partner's love strictly by their ability to "perform" is a lethal mistake. "If they wanted to, they would" is the fastest way to lose a fiercely loyal partner over a temporary lack of bandwidth.
if you are a man against abortion here are some things you can do:
1. only have sex with people who want kids
2. get a vasectomy
3. be responsible with your ejaculation
4. shut the fuck up
When 5 black boys were falsely accused of raping a woman Trump wanted them to get the death penalty.
Yet Ghislaine Maxwell raped little girls and he gets her into a country club. See the difference?
@Gordy_blondie Funny how MAGA dropped the Epstein stuff, and hyper focused on people who are just trying to exist. But hey, fuck the little kids who have been silenced, intimidated, and threatened for years. 🫶🏽🫶🏽