i honestly can’t wrap my head around it. if God put this much order into the smallest parts of creation, what makes you think He would leave you completely on your own?
When we talk about living the life you have and not contorting yourself to respond to societal pressure, it’s not just gender roles, it’s also ‘class expectations’.
Humans are mimetic but you must explore having conviction and be honest about who you are/how you choose to live.
every time you replace “this is hard” with “what’s the first step?” you shift brain activity from your amygdala (fear) to your prefrontal cortex (problem-solving).
that’s neuroplasticity in real time.