relationships are so much healthier when the goal is to experience life together & not to try to make the person turn into who you want them to be.
You need to have standards for the way you let people treat you because if someone has you questioning, uncertain or feeling unsure about your relationship and you can't confirm with a simple discussion leave them be — actions speak louder than words ever could.
I’ve said this before but it’s worth repeating.
Let people love you, praise you, and give you your flowers without feeling like you have to immediately return the gesture.
I’ve learned that sometimes we take the moments meant to uplift us and quickly make it about the other
I rlly hate thinking “okay let me show less love” “let me not care soo much” I hate that feeling. I should never have to feel that way. My purest form is loving hard and caring hard. That’s just how I am.