whalien

a 52 hertz whalien 🐋👽

[Tuan Utan @Tuanrajaharimau]

5 tanda korang dah makin matang dalam life:

1. Tak kisah kena tinggal.
2. Malas nak argue benda remeh.
3. Lagi suka duduk rumah dari keluar tak tentu hala.
4. Tak heret masalah semalam ke hari ni.
5. Dah faham yang "people come and go".

Korang dah sampai level mana?

[ɴᴀᴅɪᴀ. @luvblessingz]

THIS! We grown. We should be able to have a regular conversation that doesn’t revolve around talking about others. Most people gossip cause they ain’t got shit going on in their lives.

[Dera II @Neutral_OC]

Father encouraging his son with a limb disability to keep trying until he finally learns to feed himself. 🥺❤️‍🩹

[DiscussingFilm @DiscussingFilm]

“No to war and Free Palestine”

— Javier Bardem at the Oscars

[Variety @Variety]

Javier Bardem took the #Oscars stage and declared: “No to war and free Palestine!”

https://t.co/3IQU5sYK5w

[Faruq Mcgrath P.911 @faruqmcgrath]

Telah masuk waktu minggu berpura-pura kerja bagi seluruh tanah air

[Astro AWANI @501Awani]

Perdana Menteri, Datuk Seri Anwar Ibrahim umum cuti tambahan pada Isnin (23 Mac) jika Aidilfitri jatuh pada Jumaat (20 Mac) atau cuti tambahan pada Jumaat (20 Mac) jika Aidilfitri jatuh Sabtu (21 Mac).

#AWANInews

[KABUGO @Kabugo_]

The older I get, the more I notice something… intelligent people are polite to everyone. But they trust almost no one.

[Unfiltered @quotesdaily100]

Green Flags in a Person:

1. They don't talk badly about everyone they know
2. They're the same person in public and in private
3. They apologize without making it about themselves
4. They're happy for other people's success
5. They don't need to win every argument
6. They follow through on small things
7. They make you feel calm, not anxious
8. They have a life outside of you

[KONGSI VIRAL🇲🇾 @kongsiviralje]

Lelaki itu ingin merakam detik romantik ketika dia menari bersama isterinya, tetapi seorang tetamu yang tidak diundang turut menyertai mereka.

Kredit : tractonae

[Prince Yoshiro @Cool_Wannabe82]

Harap sangat raya tahun ni jatuh sabtu…Amin…

[𝕾𝖎𝖗 𝕮𝖍𝖗𝖎𝖘 @eagleseyeinc]

how to choose a husband

(based on standards, not illusions)

social behavior:
1. private life stays private
2. prioritizes protection
3. not addicted to status signaling
4. disciplined with alcohol, nightlife and excess
5. respected by other men (not feared, not mocked)

character and temperament:
1. strength without intimidation
2. disagreement without humiliation
3. accountability without excuses
4. integrity when no one is watching
5. emotionally regulated under pressure
6. anger is controlled, not suppressed or explosive
7. has a calm authority, not performative dominance

values and discipline:
1. loyalty is a principle, not a mood
2. delayed gratification is normal to him
3. his self-respect precedes entitlement
4. low impulsivity with money, sex and decisions
5. doesn’t chase validation or female attention
6. keeps boundaries even when tempted
7. not addicted to gambling

relationships and history:
1. peace is his baseline, not constant conflict
2. doesn’t define himself by past women or failures
3. no addiction to novelty or conquest
4. no unresolved ex-dramas lingering in his life
5. history shows learning, not repetition

family and imprint:
1. respects his mother without being controlled by her
2. understands masculine responsibility from example or correction
3. comes from or has built structure and order
4. no pattern of abandoning commitments under pressure
5. understands leadership cos he’s practiced it

communication and respect:
1. speaks directly without manipulation
2. listens without ego fragility
3. doesn’t weaponize silence, anger or provision
3. protects your reputation publicly and privately
5. conflict is handled, not avoided or dramatized

work, purpose and provision:
1. has direction, not just ambition
2. makes consistent effort, not big talk
3. builds steadily, not impulsively
4. sees provision as responsibility, not leverage
5. money decisions are rational, not emotional

attraction and intimacy:
1. attraction is natural, not coerced
2. desire exists without entitlement
3. craves sex as connection, not control
4. craves a stable affection, not conditional
5. strength and gentleness coexist

timing and readiness:
1. chooses marriage consciously, not reactively
2. not escaping loneliness or social pressure
3. understands sacrifice without bitterness
4. wants partnership, not dominance or dependency
5. your nervous system settles around him

summary rule, as a woman:
don’t marry charm, don’t marry intensity, don’t marry promises.
marry discipline, consistency and leadership.

your life will become steadier, not chaotic
your trust will deepen, not be negotiated
your future will feel protected, not uncertain

bookmark and save for later, daughter. buena suerte. 👍

[💫 @lovaszhx]

Orang-orang panik umur 30 belum nikah. Aku panik umur segini belum kaya.

[Kosmo! Online @kosmo_online]

Rata-rata pengunjung bazar Ramadan meluahkan rasa kesal apabila ada segelintir peniaga sengaja menaikkan harga jualan sesuka hati kononnya akibat krisis di Asia Barat.

https://t.co/vyko7QVoLT

[whalien @__batrishia]

Azfarheri pun dah kurus. Aku ni dari bulan January dok kata nak diet nak diet tapi hirup teh ais tiap minggu serupa tu jugak 😭

[Esther Ann Uduma @estherannuduma]

Society lied.
Women in their 30s are so beautiful, healthy and strong.
A lot of women get more beautiful in their 30s.
Bunch of liars, 30 isn't old.

[Hizwani Hassan @hizwani]

Masa beraya nanti, latih diri utk tidak tanya soalan sensitif, atau get triggered bila ditanya soalan sensitif

Belajar utk tak take it personal

Most of the time, sebenarnya orang terpanggil utk borak, tetapi tak tahu nak tanya apa

Orang tak tahu nak buat small talk

My POV✌️

[Jejak Rasa @jejakrasa27]

Pada akhirnya, bukan lagi tentang
“if he wants, he would.”
Tapi lebih kepada,
“if Allah has written it for you, it will find its way to you at the right time, in the right way.”
Percayalah,
apa yang memang Allah takdirkan untuk kamu, pasti akan sampai juga pada waktunya.
Dan kalau memang bukan untukmu, sekuat apa pun kamu berusaha mempertahankannya, ia tetap tidak akan menjadi milikmu.

[‏ً @omgsidewalks]

Ngl humans shouldn't always stay at home, even if you have nothing to do. Because staying at home for too long makes the brain become dull and leads to overthinking. You'll have more negative emotions. Psychology calls this state mental rumination. Most of the time, people who stay at home long term are not physically lazy - but mentally exhausted. You increasingly do not want to go out or see people. Even going to the supermarket downstairs to buy a bottle of water feels troublesome. You start to get used to being in a daze alone, scrolling through your phone and staying up late. Then you repeatedly struggle with yourself in an empty room. You think you're resting. But in fact, you're quietly draining the vitality of life. Your brain needs stimulation. Movement. Connection. Without it, your thoughts turn inward and spiral. The longer you isolate, the harder it becomes to break the pattern.