it’s scary the way you can kill off the love you have for someone. you just continuously remind yourself of the reality of the situation. you internalize how unfairly you were treated (even unintentionally). you do the work & then one day, you feel nothing for them. not a thing.
working on yourself never ends. You get better & then boom now it's some new sht that you have to work on.... just unlocking endless levels of growth & healing.
Being able to call on and depend on a man is a flex, IN MY OPINION! I mean yes I can absolutely handle things on my own but just knowing my life is a little easier because Im supported and someone always has my back is top tier to me.🥹