The bereaved needs emotional support and not emotional blackmail. Telling someone who have lost their loved ones that God knows the reason why is a form of emotional blackmail.
Mih na hizi miaka zangu zote hakuna kitu huwa naogopa kama nyoka, kwanza usiku nikiwatch kitu yeyote ikona nyoka lazima at some point niamke nishtuke nikidhani imeingia kwa bed 💀😂