Once I start looking at you differently, it's a wrap. No amount of apologies will fix it. I'm not even mad at you, you're just so weird to me now. That goes for family, friends, relationships all that.
Stop letting people consume you. They didn't call? Go to sleep. They didn't message you? Put your phone down and have a better day. They left you on read? Delete the conversation. They didn't make an effort? Match their energy. Never let your happiness depend on anyone.
cutting people off feels different now. itโs not anger, itโs grief. like dangโฆ I really wanted you here, but your actions showed me Iโm not safe with you.
Sometimes you need your feelings HURT so you can finally WAKE UP and focus on YOU. Pain be tha loudest lesson. It'll snap you out that fantasy, clear your vision and remind you who you are. Everybody not meant to stay- some ppl just come to trigger your growth. ๐ฏ