Some of us had parents who were physically present but emotionally absent. They cooked. They cleaned. They paid the bills. But they never hugged you, affirmed you, or made you feel safe. That's a scar too.
imagine a man doing everything they can like everything in their will power to get u to leave them and u never do bc ur desperate as fuck and don’t get niggas
DO NOT invite me to housewarming parties, weddings, baby showers, graduations, etc... if you don’t include me in cookouts, coffee breaks, movie dates, girls night or any other gatherings. it’s so offensive to think someone wants to dish out money on your life milestones without actually including them in your life progressions.
Every woman needs a season where nobody knows what she’s doing. Not her ex. Not her friends. Not social media. Just her, God, and the plan. Some blessings grow better in silence, and everybody don’t deserve access to the version of you that’s still being built.
There should never be too many mumbles & cackles about me because just know that I’m always sparing a lot of people & things. I just value myself too much to stoop!