I just spent my last 2 hours explaining to someone how omitting information makes them a liar . And not telling me something and manipulating the situation so i don’t find out makes them a liar lmao
If we date, don’t stop being you. Keep having fun, keep seeing your friends, keep chasing your goals, and keep enjoying your life. A relationship should add to your life, not take away from it. Just make sure you save time for us too.
I hope you’re never at the mercy of anyone.
But if life happens and you do find yourself suddenly at their mercy, I hope they’re actually merciful to you.
I hope they are kind. I hope you get the help you need from them without being abused, shamed or taken advantage of.
Be a bad b!tch with a warm heart. It’s not cute to be rude and disrespectful. You can be confident, have no tolerance for insults and still be gentle kind to people who deserve it. This is the dream combination that needs to be mastered.
I don’t separate love from how I’m treated. If I constantly feel neglected, dismissed or unsupported, the love dies naturally. Bc in my mind real love naturally produces intentional behavior.