Life isn't a movie...that person you love so dearly today will drop you like a heavy load tomorrow, find love again and forget about you. What you begged them for, the other person will receive effortlessly, without even asking for it.
You were just a stepping stone.
there's this belief buried deep inside me that i can't date anyone until i've become the absolute best version of myself. first i need the career. then the body. then the confidence. then the life plan. and only after all that, i'm finally allowed to be loved.
I'm all for self improvement and such but blowing up relationships is bad. I mean, can't you have that conversation with your partner to determine whether they'll fit in your next level?
If not, split...if he can, let him. These one sided break-ups leave behind broken hearts.
Ended my relationship today and restarting my life at 28.The pain so much . I lost my life, future plans, daily routine, and supposedly my to be a husband by the end of this year…
Can I still start over at 28😭
@rashi__pandey_ A lot of women don’t even want expensive things. They just want consistency, thoughtfulness, reassurance, effort, and to genuinely feel chosen.
I blocked him, and for once he didn’t try to reach out. I gave in and unblocked him today, and the first thing I see is his new profile pic😩😭him and the other girl. Lesson learned😭😭😭😭
Enjoy the honeymoon phase polite 😂 the rose colored glasses will drop and the dopamine will plateau then dip. That's where the real relationship will begin.