at some point, you really have to tell yourself "this isn't an experience i want to keep having" and stop entertaining things that don't benefit you in any way
a man’s desire to become a father is always paid for by a woman, with her body, her health, her career, and her freedom. But a woman’s desire to live in comfort is somehow considered materialistic.
It’s strange and beautiful to realise that you can be simultaneously proud of how far you have come and aware that you have barely scratched the surface of who you could become.
i am obsessed with the concept of collapsing timelines. like what do you mean your entire life can change in 6 months because of one decision, one person, one opportunity, one random yes??? you are literally one plot twist away from a completely different life.
I don’t want a soft life because I’m lazy. I want a soft life because I’ve spent most of my life in survival mode. my nervous system has been in fight or flight since childhood and now I’m choosing peace and stability.