if you’re around people who can confidently speak up when your behaviour is impacting them negatively, it means they have respect for themselves, and it means they are teaching you how to love them. because they value you enough to keep you in their lives.
this year I've ended a lot of relationships & it feels odd sometimes. but when you're the person who's always giving everything & receiving nothing in return, you start resenting the people in your life... & resenting being "too nice" it's very confusing