The time for being nice is over, you can be kind.. not nice. Some ppl are so demonic they resent you for helping them. The nicer you are to them, the more they hate you.
My biggest concern as a mom isn't whether i'll make it through the hard days. I know I will. I always do. My biggest fear is looking back one day and realizing I spent so much of their childhood exhausted, overwhelmed, overstimulated, and just trying to survive.
The truth is they want you to be as evil, sadistic, and as miserable as they are. They wanted to DESTROY your spirit and take away your will to live. Your joy, your laughter, and your ability to see the bright side in everything is what they hate about you the most. They couldn't steal your LIGHT. They HATE that even after EVERYTHING they did to you that they didnt stop your passion, your drive, your hope, or your love for others but instead eliminated every chance they had at YOU loving THEM. Talk about a backfire.
If I’m being honest, God isn’t always my first response. Sometimes I worry first. I overthink first. I get frustrated first. I try to figure everything out on my own. And then I’m reminded … wait.,,. I can actually pray about this. I’m still learning to take things to God before I let them take over my mind. Because the truth is, He never asked me to carry everything on my own.
one thing about me, i can genuinely care about somebody & still have absolutely no interest in being part of their life anymore. love don’t always require access.
Shoutout to the women in preparation mode. the women who are entering their think bigger b-tch! & in their soft girl era. the women who are resting, planning, and goal setting & crushing it because it’s about time we move unapologetically. 💓
Some ppl feel like you “left them behind” bc you detached from them and moved on entirely but these are the same folks who were playing both sides, not sticking up for you, in close proximity to your enemies && “didn’t know what to believe” when they were fed lies about you. Confusion is a choice && they chose their side when they didn’t choose you.