Don't teach your partner how to be your partner, Don't ask them to block people, Don't ask them not to be friendly with others, Don't ask them for attention.
If they truly love and respected you they'd do it all on their own.
I pray I marry into a family filled with love. Itโs so important to me to have loving in-laws, I want to marry into a family where I feel like theyโre my second parents and siblings.