i hate arguing now. i realized that it’s really a turn off for me. i like equal accountability & no pointing fingers & easy solutions. All that other stuff be having my head hurting. Like bro forget it lmao you right just leave me alone
Things that look like love:
Sex
Calling all the time
Obsessions/Attention
Going out all the time
Gifts and money
What love really is:
Respect
Forgiveness
Trust
Sacrifice
Commitment
Having each other's back
Common goals
Evolving together
Communication
For those choosing to break generational cycles, your parents couldn’t do it. Their parents couldn’t do it. But for some reason you noticed the pattern, and decided it ends with you. You’re the blueprint. It's time to realize your worth, and step into your power.
“stop being sensitive” no‚ you stop being insensitive. respect how people respond to things and situations what’s little for you might big to others. if you can’t empathize with other people’s emotions‚ at least learn to respect different levels of sensitivity.
@Qover - so what do you actually class as damage cover then? because this is ridiculous!!!! Paying a monthly payment for them to just decline any claim you have!
Unhealed trauma will create issues in your mind that don’t exist, especially if you’ve been hurt over and over. Remind yourself to stop looking for things that aren't there.
Having an emotionally mature partner is TOP TIER. You're able to express yourself freely and openly. They don’t insult you, they don't give you the silent treatment, they don't become aggressive or manipulative. They listen, they respond – they patiently hold a safe space for you
I add songs that I think my dad would like to a Spotify playlist. He died 8 years ago but every so often I play it when I'm driving alone, and I talk to him about them. It feels we're listening together. I miss him every day. Love you dad.