A hard pill I’ve had to swallow ~ just because I am kind & have good intentions, doesn’t mean I’m not toxic or the villain to someone else.
Ie. I push people to what I view as their full potential instead of taking them as they are (which probably has driven ex SOs/friends mad)
I saw a quote today that really hit home.
Men will never have to compete with one another for my attention. They’ll have to compete against the peace that I enjoy on my own. If you’re in my life, you will add to my happiness, not be the sole reason for it.
oh my god there are so many books to read and instruments to play and languages to learn and people to meet and songs to hear and food to taste and places to see and lives to live
normalize Valentine's Day being not just for couples!!!!!! there's so many people in our lives to show love to!!! Valentine's Day is about LOVE not necessarily romance. tell/ show the people you love that you love them!!
I want to help you move and I want you to take me to urgent care when I cant drive and I want to watch your kid for a night to give you a break and I want you to cook me a meal just because and I want to pick you up when your car breaks down because we're friends and friends help