Your partner coming to you about something youโve done wrong isnโt a personal attack. Itโs a healthy sign they value the relationship and want to make it work โ it's a heads up. You communicate, you fix it, you stay. That's emotional maturity. That's commitment. That's love.
In a relationship, there's no such thing as 'that's just the way I am'. when you truly love someone you work on those toxic traits, you learn to communicate, you actively listen to each others thoughts & feelings โ you adjust, grow & heal together.