maturing is realising that there comes a moment where you decide “this is the last time these people are going to make me feel this way,” and you actually mean it. whether it’s family, a relationship, or a friendship.
I don’t think you’ve found your person until you meet someone who will take care of things on your behalf, when you’re unable to or just because. Without question or hesitation. Because they want to see you win in life & care about you. The ones who will move mountains for you.
unrelated but i’m so jealous of people that have these types of candid photos. you looked gorgeous just on your bed scrolling and someone saw how beautiful you were and took a picture. i want.
I’ve thought about this too, and funny your “part”might not necessarily be something you did, sometimes it’s the inactions: not having boundaries, not communicating how we truly felt, people-pleasing etc.