Once a man feels comfortable asking you for things or money, it means he either doesn’t picture a future with you or he just doesn’t value you.
Pay attention to how he treats you. He’s showing you exactly how he sees you.
Notice how most of your menial workers/people with handwork are married ?
That your cleaner, your rewire/mechanic, your estate gate guys/Gateman, your janitor
Almost all married with kids.
Lowkey, na too much exposure dey make us dey overkaku who to settle down with
I remember when I newly got married, my husband and I had a misunderstanding and out of anger, I told him, Please, get out.
He said, Okay, and left.
By 8 p.m., he wasn’t answering my calls. I didn’t realise he actually took my get out seriously until he stayed away for four days. 😂
By then, I was calling his brother, sending apology messages and begging him to come home. 😂
That experience taught me a big lesson. Since that day, no matter how angry I am, I have never told my husband to get out or used negative words on him.
Sometimes, when I’m angry, I just keep quiet because I know I might say something I’ll regret later.
I just laugh whenever I remember it ,but I also appreciate that experience because it taught me to be more careful with my words .
Today, I proudly wear the rank of CAPTAIN.
The journey has been nothing short of a blessing, and I’m deeply grateful to God for every opportunity that has brought me to this moment. 🙏🎖️🪖🇺🇸
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