Getting your shit together requires a level of honesty you can’t even imagine. There’s nothing easy about realizing you’re the one that’s been holding you back this whole time.
One day you will realize why your timing was perfect and why things had to happen the way they did. To protect you, to guide you and to redirect you to where you were always truly meant to be. Trust the process of your path, evolution, and growth - it's all divine timing.
Listen!!!! If you KNOW that you did absolutely nothing to someone and they pull away from you, it's God. Don't even question it. Every separation don't require a discussion....
The older you get, the more you choose calmness over conflict and distance over disrespect. Drama becomes intolerable to you and your peace becomes your ultimate priority. You start surrounding yourself with people who are good for your mental health, heart and soul.
It's raw af seeing yourself become a new person, focused on your own goals, not repeating the same cycles, outgrowing stagnant situations, not putting up with nobody's sh't, it feels so good
i think the hardest thing about adulting is that you literally have to keep going! no matter what mood or situation you’re going thru. you gotta keep going cause life goes on.
.. tbh I don’t think I’m difficult. I’ve settled for a lot in my past. I’ve gone through things I never want to again. I’ve seen what my lowest point could be & it’s not something I want to revert back to. I just know what I want & don’t have time for anything else.
I’ll never get over this …28,000 Hawaiians waiting for a Hawaiian Homestead in HAWAI’I while we build hotels ,malls, rails , Wave pools, allow foreigners to buy land & homes ,promote tourism more than assist residents needs & so much more …this will always make me sick
i have to remind myself to stop living in the future so much and to let life happen to me, organically. not processed. organic. too much processing and i’ll lose the very essence that makes life worth living and memories worth keeping.
outgrowing people is very real. we all bloom in different seasons and sometimes you might be evolving in different areas of life, faster than your peer or partner. it can be painful when you realize. will they catch up to you someday? maybe. that’s none of your concern though.
I’m officially at the age I don’t want to be around people who are not self aware. Continuously putting themselves in bad positions, making bad life choices, toxic ways/lifestyles, no priorities, lacking accountability etc.
i have no idea what i’m doing with my life or even what my life path is right now and i think that’s the best space to be in. when you think you have nothing, you get to create the world. follow what your heart sings for and that will take you where you need to go.
Only you understand what it took for you to be where you are. Always acknowledge how far you’ve come and give yourself credit for evolving, for changing, and for making it through. Your resiliency and consistency is so valuable. Keep shinning so bright!