The biggest favor a woman can do for you is to leave you.
Not leave you alone, let you be, leave you for a while.
No. Leave you.
Because two things are happening: she thinks she can do better by getting a better man than you AND she’s letting you know she was never yours- it was just your turn.
You do not have control over any of those scenarios.
Just say OK and do not add a single word to her. No ands ifs or buts.
Just OK.
Then go build yourself to a point where she can never have access to you ever again.
I learnt that lesson 20 years ago⤵️
Gachau is a kikuyu name for weak cow’s calf.
A regular calf is Njau; but when it’s born weak, it’s a Gachau.
This Gachau has to be put on a special diet of mainly double the portions of food so as to keep it alive and nurse it to health.
Gachau ka Njoroge